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Your child passed more than two months to have fun, to live to his own rhythm and to make what he wanted practically. To recover the constraints of the school doesn't necessarily wrap it. Also, to pass this small difficult cape, he will have need that you are a little more available than usually and that you surrounded it with all your affection. Here is 10 advice for one return without stress. 1). accustom him to new timetables: after the fat mornings and the summery evenings, your child has need to recover a new rhythm. Some days before the return, advance his hour of the bedtime and the one of his rising. Ideally, the hour of the bedtime must not exceed 21 hours, leave to allow one half-hour of reading in bed. 2). prepare it psychologically. In the days that precede the day J, speak him of the school. Explain to him why he goes there and what advantages he is going to pull of it. Your argumentaire should adapt to the character and at the age of your child: he is going to recover his friends and to make themselves of it of new, to discover new activities, to learn the things that are going to help it to grow. 3). reassure it. He is anguished, and when you speak him of the return, he sniffles: "No, I don't want to go there! "Nothing more normal. Tell to him that you understand his anguishes because he is going to change mistress, class. and that to his age you had yourselves as some apprehensions the days of return, but that you made yourselves many friends. Explain to him that in case of difficulties, you will be at his sides to help it to surmount them. 4). prepare it to be autonomous: especially at quite the small, the lack of autonomy can create a real stress. To avoid it to him, teach him to undress and to dress again all alone. To help it, identify his clothes with sewn labels structural his name or an acronym that he will be able to recognize easily. Besides, it will avoid the frequent confusions because it is not rare that two children wear an identical garment. 5). stay up to conduct the usual medical verifications: vision, audition, teeth, vaccinations. It is important for his future your child, because he is frequent that a child becomes solely a "bad pupil" because of a poor eyesight or a faltering audition. How well to learn if one doesn't see well or if one doesn't hear that correctly that so-called the mistress? 6). if your child goes back to the kindergarten, or if he changes school don't wait for the day J to present him his new school. Nothing more agonizing than a place without reference mark in which he will feel lost. To familiarize it with the place, make several times the journey with him while explaining to him where are the court, the classes, the yard. If open doors" exist of "days, take to visit it the school, it will help it to create themselves of new reference marks and to have confidence in him the day of the return. 7). buy him some books on the school and in particular on the return. The children adore to identify to the "heroes" of these educational works. In addition, these histories reassure them and allow them to see that the other as are anguished or cry the day J. Of as much that that always ends well! 8). prepare him a small bag or a satchel with his personal business (clothes spare for the smallest, transportation card so necessary.). Slip there also an object that he especially loves (a doudou, of the pictures that he collects, a toy. ). It will reassure it to take one kid piece of his usual environment with him. 9) .the day J, wake yourselves sufficiently early up to avoid to be too "speed". It is necessary that he has the time of good to wake up and to take a good breakfast. If he doesn't have an appetite because he is anguished, don't insist, but prepare him an encas (sandwich with cheese, rod to the cereals, fruits.) that you will slip in his satchel. 10). take it yourself to the school. If you have the possibility of it (and if he wants of it! !), come with your child until his class. If you cannot come with it, culpabilisez not but explain him the things well and try to free you earlier in the evening so that he can tell you his first day of school! 2008-12-07
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