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At the young women of less than 18 years, the IVG is the exit of more than a pregnancy on two:Â 6 000 minor decide each year thus to abort. At the teenagers, the non wanted pregnancies are the fact of contraception accidents, of a hazardous contraception or of not of contraception of the all. "When I learned that I was enclosed, the idea to keep it didn't come me to the mind." Sophie, 18 years and pupil in Paris are certain to have made the good choice, there is one year exactly:Â To "keep a child when you are 17 years old, it decide to raise it only or to make your life with a love of youth. I could consider neither one nor the other of the solutions. Adolescence, that doesn't live itself with a baby in the arms, but with lovers, of the pals and the right to the irresponsibility. I want a child a lot, but I don't want to make it to the light." "That cannot arrive me to me"The teenagers know the different means to protect themselves but think that the risk, it is for the other:Â "Before, I thought, like all my girlfriends that that could not arrive" me, remembers Sophie who recognizes to have more non protected sexual relations:Â "The last time, I immediately took the pill of the following day.". A serious contraceptive project is besides with difficulty compatible with "the teenage behavior makes trial conducts and risks." The sexuality of the teenagers, a tabooThe relations that Sophie maintains with her mother allowed him not to be alone facing this non wanted pregnancy and to the decision to put a term there. "She was with me all along this history:Â when I made the test, during the previous interview. I now know that I had an extraordinary luck." The absence of dialogue with their parents washing-up of very numerous girls in a deep distress. This fear to face the look of the adults is besides one of the main reasons of the belated recognition of these pregnancies and, in the most serious cases, of the overtaking of the delays legal of the IVG,:Â "For a girl to say, "I am enclosed" that is made of it to say" I lay down." When the relations in love have never been landed home, it is sometimes a shame insurmountable", explain Martine Leroy, of the Family planning of Nantes. "Although the sex is everywhere present in our society of consumption, the sexuality of the young, it, is a taboo topic, including, I would even say especially in the families, all disconcerted social classes. Pregnancies at the minor are very often discerned by the parents like an attack to the domestic integrity." These are the girlfriends that, in general, collect the confidences:Â "As they know that I have the experience, my girlfriends and my cousin come to see me as soon as they have a delay of rules or when they made the love without anything. At home, they are alone facing these problems." Â Priority to the preventionIn this context, the levee of the parental authorization asked for years by many physicians, associations or unions, and foreseen in the new law on the IVG, will facilitate the course of hundreds of girls. But the remained essential, for the actors of land, information and the prevention, in and out the school environment:Â "The too rare and too theoretical information is received by the teenagers, but they don't know how to use it in their daily life, for their own body. This shift is often at the origin of the non wanted pregnancies. It would be necessary to put on foot of the groups of words where the teenagers could exchange on concrete experiences", concludes Martine Leroy. When one asks Sophie if his IVG let him the aftermaths, on the psychological or emotional plan, she says:Â "I don't regret, but there is a thing that I will have liked to know:Â if my baby would have been a girl or a boy." Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â 2009-09-20
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