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You are often alone and to part a few knowledge of office, you don't manage to make you true friends. Does it miss you and don't you know how there to remedy? That you are a shy hardened or that you had just arrived in a new region, here is some convenient advice to create lasting relations. According to some polls, practically 100% of people estimate the important friendship for their pleasure and their personal balance. Why does she occupy so much place in our life? Probably because the friendship includes a lot of feelings. Synonymous of communication, help, fidelity or complicity, she contributes to the construction of the personality of each, and constitute a true rampart to the solitude, what returns it of as much more fundamental. ..Be to the monitoring of the other! What to do when the friendship misses to your daily? If you don't have any other knowledge that your colleagues of job that you leave every evening at 18 o'clock, if you have the impression to be the ugly duckling that one never invites in evening, and if it bores you or sadden you deeply, he is not too late to make evolve the things. Recapture yourselves and give yourselves the means to succeed in making you some friends. First of all, don't remain alone at home, leave, go for a walk with yourselves, develop your activities. The associations and other sporty clubs overflow with people who only longs for to meet. Once this first cleared stage, to you to play. Follow some rules of basis communication: remember the first name of people that you meet, avoid to criticize, rather congratulate, and, especially, listen to the other to speak to you him, you will teach a lot of it. ..Make the first step! The important is to be positive, smiling and welcoming. Don't pass polish either, it would be seen badly, but show yourselves under your best day, simply. Tell yourselves that it is not while arriving in a bad mood every morning in the office that your colleagues will want to come toward you. Make the first step: the meetings you can make some everywhere, the most delicate is to develop them and to maintain them. For it, have confidence in you, if you had a good contact to the departure, the person will want to see you again. Don't hesitate to throw some invitations. To offer an aperitif at home with your new neighbors or colleagues of work can be a very good starting point. Make their pleasure, there is not anything better to maintain a relation, and give yourselves also of the time, because the friendship, it doesn't order itself! You will pass the stage of copinage progressively to the one of buddies, then of friends. Try to ask you also for what you wait for a friendly relation. If you are to the clear since the departure with your desires and desires, she will only be better of it. It is not while being too demanding, that you will give to the other the desire to come to see you and to confide in you. Be flexible and open. Have confidence in you and in the other, and know to maintain the flame of the friendship. This is how, without giving you account of it, you will be able to widen your friendly network progressively and make you true friends. 2008-11-27
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