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To approach someone that pleases you... has a situation often difficult, in which the stage fright is inescapable! The things so that your first appointment is not the last... Your stage fright stopped you maybe from making the theater or to start a career in the song... But most serious, it is if your lack of insurance made you miss the big love! In four key stages, Doctissimo gives you some advice to succeed in approaching the kindred spirit... Dare to approach itYou have it repéré(e) for a long time, you work to his/her sides or him (her) cross every day in the bakery. You decided of that it could not last anymore, that it was necessary to declare him your flame where at least to invite it to eat lunch! Bravo! Now it is about taking your two-handed courage to dare to approach it. Some things to transform you in knight Bayard: - Try the positive thought: tell yourselves that you are the most beautiful, the best... even though it is not necessarily efficient, it can give you the necessary bit of help!
- More matter-of-fact, don't forget to make you beautiful! Coiffe, habille you will feel another man (another woman). Nothing such to ascertain his/her power of seduction! But attention to choose the clothes in which you feel at ease!
- Know yourselves! List the shortcomings that it is preferable "to hide" and the qualities to put forward. But don't look for either to become too much perfect!
Don't babble! It is very important to make good impression since the departure! For it, you don't must under any to babble. Some things not to entangle you the pencils: - Without writing some sentences in advance, identify the key themes that to land wishes. Try not to lose them of view at the time of the conversation.
- It is necessary to know how to improvise also! Nothing more irritating than someone that recites his/her text painfully! Don't hesitate to change topic if you see that you don't fascinate the crowds!
- Accept to confess that you have the stage fright! The honesty often proves to be paying!
- Don't look at your feet! The seduction also passes by the eyes. Without staring the other necessarily, look honestly at it! You will see that it can prove to be more efficient than of simple words...
Seduce!Did you clear the stages and did know how to break ice? The all is to prolong these moments... Some things to get a first appointment: - Anticipate! When you approach your futur(e), already have an idea of evening to propose to him. Movies, concert, restoring... Inform yourselves a minimum on his/her tastes not to fall nearby!
- Don't hurl down all! If you have too much stage fright again to propose an appointment, it is not serious! You will phone him (or will send him an e-card Doctissimo) the following day or two days later, to propose him an exit...
- You don't confess loser! If he or she refuse the first appointment, propose a second date: show that you are determined and that you really value the or see it again.
Even with the feelings the strongest and most sincere, one cannot win at every try! If he or she made you understand clearly that that could not glue between you, useless to insist and to harp on this history. This failure is anyway beneficial: he allowed you to win a battle against your stage fright! Give yourselves a little time then leave in search of new conquests! 2009-02-20
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