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Love: no age limits!
Bachelor since always, widower recently or divorced person after numerous years of marriage, the solitude weighs you. Considering your age and your past, you tell yourselves that you won't be able to have anymore of life in love.
Undeceive yourselves! There is not rule of gold concerning love, and even less of age limit. To recover happiness at the age of the retirement, it is possible!
One of your friends announces you his remarriage the day of his 65 years! Why does it astonish you him as much? Do you know good that the love doesn't have any age. would not have yourselves right also you to crunch life to full teeth? In bottom these old prejudices as "that are not anymore of your age" and leave to the conquest! To convince of it to you, he is sufficient you to look around you at the number of couples that forms themselves at the age of the retirement.
Think about yourselves!
Today, with the elongation of the life span, we have more time before us after our years of work. Of the time for the leisures, to take to his passions, to travel, to make itself/themselves of the friends, and also to make meetings in love. Then not question to let decline you! On the contrary, benefit of your time, your experience and your liberty to bloom affectively.
Of as much more that your children left and that your grandchildren grew.
Finally think about yourselves! Whereas some leave their parent's role to become again some in love accomplices, others take the large and benefit what their children are placed to separate and to start again a new life in love, for which they sometimes waited for a long time.
A different pleasure
Yes, but where to meet when one is not 20 years old anymore? In journey, during the leisures, and even sometimes in the groups of support speech to the widowers. After, to you to establish contact. A lot of seniors search for the complicity, monitoring and solidarity above all in the couple, but not only: to 70 years, 6 women and 7 men out of 10 continue to make the love. But the pleasure is different, there are more of tenderness and the cuddly last longer.
The histories of love "on the wake contradictory feelings late" often in the families up, especially since the sexuality of the aged people is even taboo, the children refusing to admit this part hidden of the life of their parents. But in spite of frictions, your children should end up accepting that you redo your life, even to 75 years. What of more normal than to want to be surrounded with love and attention?
Take advantage of your time. and of your experience
He/it is true that with age health weakens itself, the illnesses are more frequent and fatigue wins the land. but it is not a reason to let go you and not to benefit some to meet happiness. Of as much more that the love gives some wings, it is a rebirth, a new youth. Don't forget that you have the advantage to have the experience and the maturity of the past years, and the tenderness and the desire of quite the new love. This is not what can arrive of better than to age with a person that you like?
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