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The men change and with them the masculine condition and the notion of virility. Calmer for the some, chauvinist for the other. Psychiatrist Serge Hefez draws the contours of these new males, in full mutation. Did you say virile? But that he to the hides right behind this term, to one time where the masculine identity feels in full mutation tossed deeply? These are the features that all culture associates to the masculine values" answers psychiatrist Serge Hefez (1). This last evokes courage, the fearlessness, the mind of adventure, a strong slant to the domination, the taste of the fight. A virility, sometimes assimilated to wrong to machismo, and that saw some of all colors in the name of the equality of the sexes. Today's men learned to appear softer, more tender, more generous, more sensitive... but today some their reproach exactly their lack of virility. "The men complain that the women make them the paradoxical demands that destabilize them" notes the psychiatrist. Result, they look for themselves and make the male takes unpublished shapes. The question arises again: How to become macho but not too much? ..The macho's return? Remain that once the past stupor, and the started yard, another awareness occurs. The women ask again for the men, of the "true", but without the disturbing aspects of a certain domination. "Of the demands discerned in a first time as contradictory, but confess that the males are ready to show evidence of good will", certify Serge Hefez. Facing this new deal that could make take off us of the models and clichés, the men seem ready to raise the challenge of a different virility. A task however more arduous than he appears there. ..Another virility is possible "The men are kneaded of contradiction, report to the representation of the masculine" signals Serge Hefez. And the double waitings of the women scramble the tracks generating at home number of interior conflicts more. Yet, more that a report it is also the bootjack of a new departure to which invites us the time. Because without the knowledge, the women are maybe formulating the bases of a virility for which the man longs secretly. After all, they are more numerous than one thinks, those that choke under the collar of the virile and inflexible hero.
"Actually, there is not model that hunts another one, but a superposition" specifies Serge Hefez. Some already claim the right to appear at a time soft and strong, sensitive and decision-maker, animal and tender sexually, generous and powerful... Of terms that approach strangely of the waitings of the women.
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