Problems of raising: attention to stress!

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One knows the anti-stress virtues of the sex, but a lot less the influence of stress on the sexual life. Professional problems, lack of money... the sources of concern don't miss. Stress can entail manner more or less lasting of the unrests of the raising. not to fall in a spiral of the failure, some solutions exist!

Decrease of desire, of the frequency of the reports or troubled of the raising, stress can really mine your sexual life. In France, a man out of five endures frequent or occasional unrests of the raising. In the majority of these cases, these problems are of psychogenic origin (psychological reason) or mixed (in part psychogenic). But these victims of stress who are who, too often, do suffer in silence?

29% of the men stressed victims of unrest of the raising

An investigation Louis Harris achieved in May 2001 permits us to relativize the picture stereotyped of the young setting incontestable champion of stress. The portrait robot of stressed it of nature appears more shaded.

More than two men on five endure stress. The profile marks the candidate to stress is a man aged of 35 to 49 years, father of family, having in the setting of his work of important responsibilities and the necessity of a sustained intellectual activity;
Among the main reasons of stress identified by these men, one notes by order of importance: the problems in work, the worries of health and money. TO contrario, the old age, the inactivity as well as child's absence to the home seem to be the best guarantees to become Zen master.

Concerning the bad influence of stress, the men admit a change of their state of mind, their physical state and their sleep. But these insomnias are not put to profit for roguish instants, their sexuality is also victim of these tensions.

Close to four men stressed on 10 confess that stress has an ominous influence on their sexuality;
In 86% of the cases, it can be about a decrease of the frequency of the sexual intercourse, or of a reduction of the desire;
In 29% of the cases, stress can be at the origin of real unrests of the raising;
These unrests are independent of age but vary an individual strongly to the other according to the way to manage his stress. The psychological fragility degree goes together with the importance of the unrests;
To the inverse, the virtues of the cuddly under the quilt make the quasi-unanimity. Close to 9 men out of ten estimate that to have a regular and pleasant sexual relation permits to be less stressed.

To come out of the spiral of the failure

But if the sexual intercourse can have an anti-stress effect, the fear of the failure can be source of quick anguish. Thus, one doesn't know more indeed that the egg is and that is the hen. the chatty stress of the unrests of the raising, themselves source of quick concerns.

Let's recall that the mechanism of the raising is under the control of two nervous systems: one excitateur (system parasympathique) and the other inhibitor (the nice system). On one hand, the first is going to encourage the relaxation of the cavernous arteries and the cavernous smooth muscle, permitting the influx of blood and the raising thus. Of the other, the system that has nice that the name is going to have an action constrictrice and therefore anti-erectile. And one knows that stress encourages this last mechanism.

But most serious is the possible setting up of a real encircles vicious. Following previous breakdowns, the man is so anxious that the raising becomes impossible. The partner's attitude is fundamental not to let get settled a spiral of the failure.

Of the more and more varied solutions

Some psychological or medicinal treatments are proposed henceforth. Sometimes, the simple made to speak of it with his physician permits to put back the man in confidence.

Since several years, some medicinal treatments gave the proof of their efficiency. They allowed many men to renew with a sexuality in full bloom.

As many reasons that should allow the men victims of unrest of the raising of more to wall up in a painful silence. The first stage consists merely in speaking of it to his physician.