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The numbers given by the INSEE are clear:  close to a marriage out of two ends currently by a divorce. But a separation, even approaching about fifty, don't sound for as much the knell of the in love and sexual and numerous life is those that retentent risks it of life to two. Between renewal of energy and time who passes, how do these recomposed couples live them their sexuality? One counts recomposed more and more couples. For these duets, it is often the beginning of a new in love and sexual life. A phenomenon in growthDifficult to raise a state of the places reliable on the situation of the couples recomposed in France. As the Dr explains it Marie-Helen Colson, specialist sex therapist of the couple, the statistical data of which we arrange concern the married couples indeed only. "However, she specifies, it is easy to imagine that number of couples recomposes themselves out marriage, of a manner that appears like less inviting after a first disappointing experience. It is not necessary therefore can - trust the official statistics to have an idea of the reality of the couples recomposed". One can note however that if the number of marriages doesn't stop decreasing, the number of remarriages remained globally steady and show a tendency even to increase with the passing of the years A different sexuality but very presentTo value the sexuality of the couples recomposed is, there either, not easy thing so much the achieved studies are few. An article published in the Newspaper of Sexual Medicine in 20062 bent however on the question and it is evident from investigations achieved by the couples recomposed French that these live a sexuality " more frequent and more motivated, and especially during longer, even at the most aged. The sexuality makes itself of it more inventive, and more shared, each searching for the pleasure of the other more. In the same way to this renewal of energy following upon the novelty of the couple, of the questions bound to the concern facing the future and to the ageing appear and these couples seem more topics to the sexual difficulties. They are however, as the Dr Colson indicates it, more minded to consult to solve their difficulties and communicate more easily about their relational and sexual problems. What solutions to palliate to these dysfunctions? To the sexual difficulties that can touch that, whatever is his domestic situation and his age, add themselves for these couples recomposed the inherent dysfunctions to the ageing. The menopause and his cortege of unrest associated at the women but also the andropause for the men can lead them in the cabinet of a specialized physician that will tempt with them to define the best treatment to adopt.  The masculine sexual vigor cannot be at the height of the desire of the new lovers. Fortunately facing these sexual breakdowns, some solutions exist. The most known are the inductive of raising (as the Cialis, the Viagra.) revolutionized the hold in charge of this trouble and made it come out of the shade. Of a dangerous efficiency, these medicines allow the man to palliate real problems or to come out of a vicious circle initiated by the fear of the failure. Their prescription will be accompanied by a medical balance in order to put in evidence all contra-indication. Of the side of the women, the administrations of hormones intended to palliate the insufficiency of estrogènes don't make themselves anymore in a systematic manner. They are prescribed to the case henceforth by case, according to the complaints and the waitings of the patients. Some lubricants can help the women enduring vaginal drought. In any case, don't let seduce you by the numerous spams you promising the delivery of inductive of raising. The recourse to these medicines requires a medical consultation. And since the sexual health been part of our well-being, don't hesitate to consult in couple!                                                                                               2009-06-10
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