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Are the recent couples conscious of the risks bound to the sexually transferable infections and the herpes? An unpublished investigation confirms the particular place of the sexuality at these lovers, their difficulty to take in account the potential dangers as well as a strong demand of information. The young couples can appear heedless concerning protection opposite the sexually transferable infections. Attention, the reflex protection is important, an IST can waste the life of these lovers. An evocation sometimes difficult of the ISTPsychotherapist and psychosexologue, Catherine Blanc considers the sexuality as the foundation of the recent couple, a sexuality centered on the performance, the speed of the satisfaction of the desires and needs and the verification of his sexual capacities. This research of performance is not however not identical for all but depends of the age of the recent couples: - It can result excessively at the youngest couples in a will of consumption to prove itself that he is sexually capable, either the research of a certain idea of the couple with will to find a perennial love.
- At the thirty-year old, be the idea of the construction of the home with in back-cloth the emergency of the parentalite: of the different stakes in protective term draw themselves then.
- Past the 45/50 years, the recent couple tries to reassure themselves on his capacities and to verify the viability of the sexual performance, feeling increased by the experience accumulated thanks to the different partners that they knew.
The verbal evocation of the sexually transferable infections (IST) is not always obvious at the time of the act for the recent couple for whom the sexuality raises more of the bodily language, pulsionnel, far from all negative imagery. The protection must appear thus in the creation of a ritual permitting the birth of a gesture reflex. So according to Catherine Blanc, to "communicate efficiently by the recent couple on the herpes and its dangers must appear therefore in a communication of appeasement giving the keys of the behaviors to adopt in order to create a ritual, and therefore a protective reflex." A real demand of information on the herpesA survey has been achieved by Opinion Way in September 2006 permitted to underline the importance of the sexuality, the difficulty to speak of the IST and a strong demand of information. The sexuality occupies a very important place in the life of the recent couples (83% among them), but the fear of the IST appears like secondary, felt it of the sexuality or the sexual performance excelling. For 8 recent couples out of 10 it is so a very easy topic to land, 93% of the recent couples think that one doesn't speak enough herpes and would wish to arrange of more of information on the topic. The herpes is not besides an illness mentioned in priority among the IST: it arrives long after the AIDS, hepatitis and the syphilis.  The risks bound to the herpes are known globally but a third of the recent couples think that one can heal some. The transmission fashions are identified again badly and the associated risks (AIDS, pregnancy) feared badly by the recent couples. Thus, in their choice to stop the condom, these recent couples don't take in account the risk herpes, as they integrate it for the AIDS. Better aware, protected better against the herpes!The genital herpes entails a change of the life quality on a sexual level with at some a psychological reverberation, in part due to the récurrence of the thrusts that characterizes this illness. The transmission risks of the virus of the herpes because of its infectious character and the promiscuity in the recent couples take a particular importance when only one of the partners of the couple is reached. If the risks bound to the transmission are underestimated extensively, it imports to help the couples to integrate the gestures of prevention in their rituals in love not to make a brake of it to their sexuality. These recent couples, rather to risk, have need to be informed well on the illness to avoid to transmit it, to integrate the good practices of prevention to live harmoniously with and to consider with serenity and security a pregnancy. 2009-06-13
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