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The erectile unrests mine life many men, and of their partners. Fear to speak of it, garaged in reason of his virility, role of the spouse, feared opposite the treatments. The internauts of Doctissimo express their anguishes, look for the answers and help each other in direct on our forums. Extracted of testimonies. "I always want my wife as to 20 years but of times during the act. The raising vanishes. I am very close to the conflict." As a lot of men, Andre announces his distress in our forum dedicated to the erectile unrests. To the approach of about forty, he lives this "handicap" judged depreciating badly and that can put sometimes in peril balances it of the couple. Without asking for performances of their partners, the women get back in question, looking for if they don't have their part of responsibility. Did they stop being pleasing to their spouse? One internaut returns thus: "I happened to from it to the point to ask him to be going to see elsewhere but only to know if it comes of me." For others, the uneasiness is quasi-palpable: "The silence gets settled... now, I don't dare the touch more, nor to approach me too near or to hire although it is... It is horrible this feeling of 'impotence' that I feel...." Not to fall in a vicious circleThe dialogue in the couple is necessary to recognize the problem and to accept to take it together to arm the body. It is about reacting before falling in a real vicious circle. The obsession of the failure has the anguish brought up and contribute to nourish the dysfunctions. "More I take myself the head, less that works. That blocks me more and more, I have the impression to be an empty packing" says Laurent. "I don't know if it is physical or psychological or the two, but I don't know anymore what to do." Stress, fatigue, hypertension, diabetes, illnesses of the prostate,. The reasons of the unrests of the raising are multiple, of organic or psychological origin, but sometimes also a little the two. Only certainty, some solutions exist today, the first step toward the end of this nightmare is to dare to speak of it! Dare to speak of it!Numerous are the testimonies of men that don't dare to speak of it and this in spite of after years of unrest. To the call of distress of Pierre, Henry answers "I was in the same case than you during 3 years. A medicine allowed me to take a normal sexual activity but at the cost of some headaches. Thereafter I could pass myself of this medicine but, as often my unrests result from psychological blockage, I take to some from time to time. It allows me to forget these breakdowns that ruined my life. I advise you to be going to see a physician who will be able to help you as he made it for me. Good luck!". Facing this problem, the partner's role is also major, as testifies another internaut of it. "In these cases it is necessary to try to change his rhythm of life and especially to speak of it with his partner. Otherwise to see his usual physician. ESPECIALLY: To discuss WITHOUT SHAME with the physician and to ask him if the illness that I have (diabetes or illness of the vessels) or if the medicines that I take can provoke a reduction of the raising. In any case it is necessary to avoid to think of it at the time of the sexual intercourse especially otherwise it is done of advance. It is not a dishonor to have a breakdown or several during one period: it is necessary to debate some with his partner that, if she is intelligent, will prove on this occasion his love for you." To come out of the spiral of the failureToday, some solutions exist. They will be able to help you to come you out of the spiral of the failure and to help you to recover confidence in you. According to the origin of your unrests, the physician will help you to find the treatment the more adapted to your case. The reaction of Cémoi, 56 years, reveals its astonishment facing the effects gotten thanks to the tablets. "Taken at 21 o'clock, I had a maximal raising since the first stimulations toward 22 hours. And I kept the same raising during the whole length of the report (1 hour about), whatever is the positions." His satisfaction and the one of his spouse appears complete. "More surprising again, my wife took the initiative of another report the following day morning toward 9 hours. I recovered a raising quickly all as rigid that the eve and during practically the same length" specifies it. But attention it is not about a miracle: "Without stimulation or desire, he doesn't happen nothing at all!"warns Pili. 2009-07-17
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