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The sexual breakdown, don't know! Are you so sure of it? According to a recent investigation, the sexual breakdown is not reserved to the seniors. Did two men of less than 40 years out of five already know a trouble of the raising. Anguish, stress, fear not to be "at the height" facing this modern woman and emancipated... What are the advanced reasons? These men and what solutions are who to propose to them? Evolution of customs, liberty of speech. The speech on the sex is not today more as secret. Chauvinist inheritance or psychology all masculine, do the young men like to relate their "performances", without fearing the climbing. But they are for saved as much by the breakdowns? No privilege of ageIn a context of cult of the performance, one imagines the young men badly to confess sexual deficiencies easily. And very surprised! An investigation reveals that they are ready to recognize their weaknesses in this domain. Achieved by 1 000 men of 25 to 40 years, she testifies of a size unexpected of the phenomenon of the sexual breakdowns in this age group since two men out of five would be concerned. More precisely, 39% of the men of 25 to 40 years had a sexual breakdown already. This proportion is the same in the general population, all disconcerted age groups. No privilege of age therefore. In the detail, 26% knew the breakdowns in an occasional manner and 12% knew some only once. "In this last case, the breakdown is not a pathology, but a reaction to one moment of life, the symptom of the couple to one moment of his evolution" specifies the Dr Philippe Brenot, sex therapist, psychiatrist and anthropologist in the university of Bordeaux.
A portrait exists marks But what distinguishes the infallible stallion of the perfectible man? Still according to the investigation, some distinctive features seem to make themselves day: - Of the side of the men having known a breakdown never, one finds a description typical of the young provincial family father with two children in the home, that wishes to succeed in priority his domestic life and of couple. These men judge their very satisfactory sexuality, as well as the one of their partner. They live more in small cities that in Parisian region and are less topics to periods of stress or of depresses. Finally, they are less shy;
- At the victims of the breakdowns, one finds more Parisians, living in couple and whose half doesn't have a child. They declare that their sexuality and the one of their partner is less satisfactory. Finally, they lived a period of stress, of anguish or of depresses and are more often shy.
But what their reaction is facing these strokes of the fate? A generation anguishedIn their big majority, the young men diminish the sexual breakdown while presenting it like a banal phenomenon. The invoked reasons are essentially of psychological order: stress, money troubles and professional problems are at the heart of trouble. Other result astonishing of the survey: 22% of the men having known a breakdown once assign it to an abuse of various substances. Alcohol, cigarette, drugs or medicines are incriminated then. But this minimization of the breakdown is real? According to the Dr Brenot, "the sexual breakdowns are very preoccupying for the man of less than 40 years. In facade, it minimizes the impact of it, but the importance that it grants to a medical help reveals a true psychological suffering in lived it of the occasional breakdown." The results of the investigation show that some men live their trouble like a true psychological pain. Thus, 20% of the men concerned say to have suffered of it and 20% tell to anticipate a new breakdown. These fears are sometimes at the origin of future unrests according to the principle of the circle vicious of the unrests of the raising. 2009-07-18
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