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All man has already been confronted to a sexual breakdown. Stress, fatigue, shyness. Forgotten quickly, this episode will make smile the lovers unless it augurs one little following the consequences enviable. A recent investigation on the sexuality of the French permits to value the real influence of these unrests of the raising. According to a recent investigation driven by the Lilly laboratories on the sexuality of the Français1s, 42% of the men recognize to have met a breakdown of raising already. Did the taboo finally fall? Not so sure. Of the unrests of the raisingIn some years, did one pass of the "The breakdown? Me ever!"to "Yes, that already happened to me." To speak of the erectile unrests doesn't seem to throw a cold weather more, as testifies the recent telephonic investigation driven at the more of 35 years of it. Not less 42% of the men and 38% of the women confessed to have to face it a sexual breakdown. Facing this impressive number, the more franchouillards will dread that the virility of the Latin rooster runs in disorder. Let's reassure them! On the one hand, these proportions can cover with the very different realities: of the exceptional trouble to the repeated failure. On the other hand, one can note merely that a better information permitted to surmount the denial. It would be however clumsy to want to minimize so much to all price this phenomenon these repercussions can alter the quality of life of the men that is victims of it. Indeed, these unrests have the individual psychological consequences, that can be added to the injuries that these same problems inflict to the harmony of the couple. Thus, these breakdowns worry 20% of the men and 23% of the women that noted it at their partner. It is therefore a sacred hard stroke since a French out of five recognizes have been preoccupied already by these problems! Of the repercussions that pass the sexual sphereAmong the men having been confronted already to these unrests, a third judge that they had an impact very or important enough on the quality of their sexual life, on their mood, on their sexual desire and on their general balance. These unrests also modify: - Their confidence in them even (27%);
- The harmony of their couple (24%);
- The partner's feelings to his consideration (23%);
- His feelings with regard to his partner (20%);
 - And even the daily relations with the outside (12%).
Of the repercussions that pass the sexual sphere very extensively. When the banal breakdown of raising becomes a real trouble, repeating themselves, introducing an intolerable unknown in the sexual life, disrupting it in depth, the sexual moment is only doubt, concern.The détente, the spontaneity, the time of game, of the sensuality, that usually feeds the relation in love, shrinks little by little, to be replaced progressively by anxious scripts" specifies us the Dr Helen Colson, sex therapist secretary general of the AIHUS (Association Inter Hospitalo-Academic of Sexology). How to come out of this vicious circle? Does this fear of the failure push for as much the patients to consult more easily and to use a treatment? The treatment? Of course, but for the other.In spite of the consequences on their daily life, the men are again very few to borrow the path of a treatment that could relieve them. Only 3% of the men concerned by the unrests of the raising tell to have had recourse there. An astonishing number, if one puts it in balance with the declarative: 71% of the French declare ready to use a medicine so need, of which 78% of the men and 65% of the women. All taboos didn't fall therefore and one can only note the persistence of moral and cultural gates. Yet, the treatment can permit to come out of the circle vicious of the failure. And in this domain, the laboratories didn't soften since several inductive of raising are already on the market.
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